After performing a Google Search on Hypocrites of Homosexuality Orson Scott Card I hit on a plethora of blogs, netlogs, message lists, and the like thoroughly discussing both the original essay and the followup, Homosexual "Marriage" and Civilization, written in February of last year (2004). One site, Frankenblog, does an excellent job of parsing the logic and lack of it in both essays, exposing the language which is inflammatory and cruel. Another message list, Aint it Cool News has a lively debate about the same. There have been quite a few comic book sites dealing with these issues as well. Apparently OSC has been hired to write Ultimate Iron Man for Marvel Comics.
I find the arguments of the few who cannot see the bigotry inherent in the essays remarkable and interesting. They do not see the minimization of our relationships, the demonizing of a whole group of people, the comparisons with children and the insane, the advocation of selective imposition of the law to silence those who aren't discreet. That particular idea is very troubling. What is the definition of indiscreet? Card never says. Who would decide? The police? And finally his assertion that people who choose to be or are different cannot be permitted to remain as acceptable, equal citizens within that society.
I don't understand how people cannot see such language as anything other than bigoted. Note here that I'm not going to call OSC a bigot or a homophobe. I agree with him that such terms are bandied about without thought. I disagree with him about the reason such epithets are used. He believes that they are used to victimize him and squelch his speech. I believe that people call him such things as a way of venting their outrage. They feel real pain upon reading his essays and they retaliate. They reduce him to a concept rather than a flawed human being. I don't want to make that same mistake.
But my own outrage is fueled primarily because I feel duped. I loved his books, especially Songmaster. I thought "here is someone who understands the gay psyche." I still believe that to be the case. He can't have fooled me, it was very true. He wasn't making it up. Is Orson Scott Card really gay? Who knows. He must have at least visualized the gay relationship in Songmaster. He has stated elsewhere that he has been thought to be queer himself. The worst homophobes are always the closest to the closet. Normal straight people really don't care this much.